Romantic relationships happen because of the hopes and dreams a couple has for a happy life together. Being concerned with what is good about the relationship is what makes the relationship good. Being too concerned with the problems that a relationship has will take away from the enjoyment that the relationship can provide.
This article suggests ways for staying aware of what makes your romantic relationship worthwhile.
Don’t Expect Too Much –
Don’t expect a perfect relationship. That happens only in fairy tales. If you expect everything to be wonderful, it makes your relationship less valuable by comparison. Problems will occur. You will get hurt. Don’t be so concerned with the problems that you loose awareness of what is good in the relationship.